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Dale Ray
Patterson
December 16, 1965 – October 5, 2025
Dale Ray Patterson December 16, 1965 – October 5, 2025
Dale was born December 16, 1965, to Darrel Patterson and Phyllis Sampson in Drumright, Oklahoma, he passed doing what he loved on October 5, 2025.
Dale was preceded in death by his grandparents, his sister Jeannie, and his brother Parrish.
He is survived by the love of his life, his best buddy, his wingman, and youngest son, Trent, and his loving wife Cindy, of the home, his daughter Carley and husband Tyler of Berryhill, daughter Cecilia of Jennings, and son TJ and wife Hannah of Mannford. He is also survived by his mother Phyllis of Jennings, father Darrel of Cushing, and bonus dad M.R. Also of Jennings, his brother Rodney and wife Chris of Jennings; his sisters Becky of Jennings and Sharon of Sand Springs; Dale was appropriately called "Pow-Pow" by his grandchildren, - Jace, Paxton, Preslie, Miah, Peyton, Miles, Paisley, Faye, Delaney, Taytum, Jimi, and his precious Karsyn who will miss him terribly, but will remember him as the one that always brought the FUN!!! He is also survived by multiple nieces and nephews who loved him dearly, as well as way too many friends to name, because to know him was to love him.
Dale was a beloved small business owner who made lifelong friends at every location he took on. Dale was a constant and joyful presence in his community. He was loved by many for his generosity, loyalty, and big heart. Dale was the life of the party — always ready with a quick joke, a mischievous grin, and a helping hand for anyone in need.....oh and that little squeeze.
He took pride in his Oklahoma roots and was a devoted OSU Cowboys fan through and through — Pistols Firing!
Dale will be remembered for his laughter, warmth, and unwavering friendship. His spirit lives on in every smile, every story, and every moment shared by those who were fortunate enough to know and love him.
Visitation will be Thursday, October 9, 2025, from 3:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at the Palmer Marler Funeral Home in Oilton.
A Celebration of Life will be on Friday, October 10, 2025, at 3:00 p.m. at the Crossroads Community Church.
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